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This page is dedicated to the bane of every Mistress: the LOSERS. These are the guys who for some reason choose to waste our time and make nuisances out of themselves. I am in no way putting their information on my site to grant them the attention they so desperately seem to crave, but rather to show the world what idiots they are. I will not be putting up direct identifying information as that could be libelous, but THEY will know who they are. And now, without further adieu, my current, and past list of folks I never want to hear from again:
We all have situations arise in our lives that make it so that we can't show up for a booked session. Thus, I have a confirmation procedure that insures I hear from you the day of your appointment. When we make contact at that specified time, I know that you have remembered to call me and everything is set for you to show up. However, there are certain folks who abuse this arrangement. They consistently book sessions and then cancel the DAY OF their appointment. How many times am I supposed to put up with this crap before I don't believe you ever intend to show? Unfortunately, someone I used to LOVE to play with has digressed into this behavior pattern. What is even MORE troublesome is the lying that goes along with it. His excuses have ranged from his BRAND NEW car getting broken into and since the dealer didn't have the glass in stock, he couldn't show up for his appointment that day, to his mother-in-law dying, to his kids getting sick--the list goes on and on. I'll never know what's true and what's fabricated, but he certainly is creative with his string of bad luck. But his excuses aren't the lies I previously mentioned. Nope. His LIES manifest themselves when he cancels at the last minute. He tells each and every Mistress he does this to that he will "send the full tribute to her mailing address." Has he ever done it? Nope. Will he ever? I doubt it. However, we've all caught onto his game. We Mistresses have been communicating about him as of late and compared notes. I'm not sure who is willing to see him at this point, but all I have to say is she is chump if she does it without some sort of a fee beforehand. I know that I'll be warning each and every Mistress I encounter about him so that he doesn't pull this crap any longer.
My newest category is the erstwhile VIDEO SLAVE. As most folks know, I have a members section to my website with lots of photos and video. Thus, I need new content on a regular basis, which also means new video slaves. I run an ad on alt.com as it's the best way to reach as many people as possible who are interested in appearing. The deal is simple: someone agrees to appear on tape with me and in return he pays nothing for a session. It's not quite the same as something that would be arranged professionally, but hey, it's FREE! I guess some folks think that isn't good enough. I had a perfect record of guys showing up for their taping dates, until 2003. This is the SECOND moron to flake on me. Thus, it's time that he is outed. Listen to his first contact with me:
<<Dearest Supreme vinyl Queen,
I must confess that after seeing your photo on my "love dog" alert for alt.com that I remembered seeing your name on maxfisch's website listings, between i(from now on i will use lower case letters whenever referring to myself in communiques' with you out of the deepest restpect for you)saw your recent photos it was if the breathe had been knocked quite literally out of my lungs!!
Mistress , you are the most beautiful creature i have ever layed eyes on and so it is with the utmost respect, and courage, that i communicate to you that i am yours to do with as you please, sincerely.Your ad mentioned you need a video slave and as i have not only acting experience and videos to my credit, but have also done modeling and have been told i have a nice body, i thought i would apply to render my services?>>So we negotiate to set up a date for a taping. "judie" seems rather excited, talks of how lovely his butt is, blah, blah. I send him directions, but then he never shows up. When I inquired as to why he stood me up, here is his excuse:
<<I do not do "freebies" for people to go out and capitlize at my expense---the least you could have done would have been to have the common decency, courtesy and basic manners and sense to offer me compensation for my time. Obviously your breeding, or lack thereof makes it blanketly clear that you have none. It is also quite clear that that is probably part of the cheap, twisted thrill for you as well. Learn how to treat people as you would like to be treated and maybe you will be better off.>>
WHAT?? Is he nuts? If he wanted compensation, then why wasn't there any mention of it BEFORE he agreed to show up? I would have quickly ended our correspondence and moved onto to others who were worth my time. No big deal though. I've forwarded his name, description and email address to others in the Femdom video biz, as well as to all of my Professional Mistress friends.
Email contact:
I usually get one challenging email every few months where the guy contacting me says, "I can take ANYTHING you can dish out Mistress. I am a SUPER slave--or some other such nonsense. Come on guys, gimme a break--NO ONE can take ANYTHING...your body WILL fail if I dish out a certain type of abuse to it, and you REALLY don't want that to happen. Here is the most recent of these emails and his outrageous response:
10/11/03: When I informed this guy that I wouldn't give him a footjob, here was his response. Lovely:
<<I'm impatient, how do i know how many foot lover's you have? and i think your right, we're not compatable, you stink. your feet may be gorgeous, but i won't spend money on a woman like you who demanding with her stinking attitude. $200/hr? i can get sex for this.
and since prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, it just makes sense. i had a girlfriend once like you, and i just eventually told her to flake off. i've already found someone who will do all, and she's asian.>>
7/07/02: Sometimes I receive email that is so completely off the wall that it takes the words right out of my mouth. Needless to say, this guy didn't even get the courtesy of a response. I promptly blocked him with my SPAM filter:
<<I live in a house that sits on about 10 acres in the town of Maricopa, about 30 miles from Phoenix and about 10 miles from Casa Grande.... I am just north of the Maricopa-Casa Grande Highway (called Cottonwood in Casa grande) and just North of the Rail roadtracks There are AMtrack and freight trains going either east or west at the rate of about one train every 15 minutes at times......
Yesterday while I was in the front yard moving dirt, a Mexican (most likely an illegal) came up to me and tried to get me to hire him for $6 per hour. He put up six fingers then tried to take my shovel and load the wheelbarrow. I do not speak Spanish, I speak German.. My mother is German and I lived in Germany when I was younger.. I travel to Germany every few years to visit relatives. This guy spoke almost no English. he carried a piece of cardboard uner one of his arms. I wonder if a smuggler dropped him off nearby or if he got of a train somewhere nearby.
I did find a dog chain in the field. MY question for you is what would be the best way to "corral" the illegal until the border patrol can come get him... Next time a mexican stops by, I am thinking of putting a dog collar on him and tying him to a large tree...>>
<<You also seem to be Hispanic & I don't usually prefer those women...I once saw a gorgeous tall blonde Nordic dom in Lady Laura's in LA 5 or so yrs. ago, & she berated me terribly when I touched her stockinged legs & ft. with my pvt. parts, saying "I'm only interested in the fetishism psychology, & you just want to get off!" I didn't hear that from you in our conversation, & I have to ask you if that's what you meant when you said "no ft-jobs." I think we could renegotiate when we do a face-to-face encounter & get to know each other....I would eagerly meet you for that rendezvous at an East Bay/Fremont (where I assume you live) coffehouse or deli sometime soon for nada more than conversation or lunch, on me, & we could go from there. I hope to talk you into an E. Bay or San Jose incall, so as to avoid the agonizing 2-hr. by car trip to SF which would not warm me up for a session.>>
Does he really believe that after reading that I was all hot and bothered to meet him? He sounds like a real slug to me. He's lucky that I'm respectful of discretion. He emailed me from his work address. Not a good plan when you are acting like an jerk!
Phone calls:
The number of phone calls I receive on a daily basis that frustrate and anger me are beyond belief. Sometimes I wonder how the heck the male species ever accomplished anything with its apparent inability to READ AND FOLLOW DIRECTIONS. Here is an example:
Donald and Stephanie from Detroit
These two are REAL winners! Donald has been harassing Mistresses throughout the country for years now. He calls under the premise of wanting to find a Mistress for his wife Stephanie. He even briefly put her on the phone for me--which isn't unheard of from other Mistresses I have spoken with about him. The long and the short of it is that they are NEVER going to show up for a session. He just wants to sit on the phone and hear about HOW the Mistress is going to dominate his wife, and how he can watch. Now readers of this page are probably chalking me up for being really gullible after hearing Donald's MO, but I have to give EVERYONE the benefit of the doubt until I find out otherwise. Unfortunately for everyone else, I am a lot more direct on the phone these days and I don't chat for very long about anyone's session. This is just how it has to be or I am going to get jerked around by more folks like Donald. At least more of us are wise to games at this point in time...
( Dec 2001) Tom:
This guy is nothing but a liar--self-admitted at that. He called me twice in one week: once on a Tuesday and then again on a Thursday. The first thing out of his mouth was that he usually lies to the Mistress and tells her that he is a novice as he has had over 50 sessions and he wants to start things out fresh. PUH LEAZE!! After going back and forth about his interests during our first phone call, things began to detoriorate. He kept mentioning that he wanted the Mistress to have a good time and that he had become jaded in past sessions. I did my best to reassure him that I was the right choice, but I eventaully had to end the call as I had better things to do with my time then convince him to see me.
He calls me back on Thursday of the same week. He doesn't acknowledge that he has spoken to me before. I call him on that fact right away. He doesn't seem to feel that his dishonest is a big deal. Then he tells me that his fantasy is for me to put a plastic bag over his head and to laugh at him while I watch him die. To be honest, the thought of doing that to him was starting to sound like a fun prospect, but I don't do breath play, so oh well. I told him he was a liar and hung up. If you're reading this Tom, don't ever call me again!
Cyber-harassment:
This brings me to my "bad slave du jour:" I started communicating with this potential client back in 1998. We were building up to his arrival in the US and he was really looking forward to a session with me. At some point, he stopped contacting me and I wrote him off my list as a lost cause. When he resurfaced months down the road in 1999, I refused to see him for a session. I felt like my time had been wasted and that he had no intention of ever showing up for an in-person appointment. Well some folks don't take NO for an answer quite well and the threatening phone calls as well as emails commenced. I got his hotmail account shut down when the text turned vicious and violent. I decided to do some research in the midst of all this and figured out that my "cyber" stalker was actually back in Turkey. He seemed a heck of a lot less threatening with an ocean separating us. I didn't have too much more to worry about as his contact ceased after one of the large earthquakes in the region.
Just as every city rebuilds after a disaster, I guess my little friend decided to resurface in a different manner this current time around. In Aug of 2000, someone contacted me via AOL Instant Messenger with a variation on my name: vnylqueen. At first I thought it might actually be another woman trying to work under my persona and name. It didn't take me long to figure out that it was yanni ( yes that is his name ROFL !) back at his old tricks again. This time he was a bit more intelligent in that he wouldn't send me direct email, only Instant Messages. Since I had ALL of his old screen names blocked, I guess he figured out another way to try and get to me. I am posting the information about our history here because I KNOW he still checks my site on a regular basis. I also want my fans to beware of him using different spellings of my name on Instant Messenger. There is only ONE Vinyl Queen and the easiest way to verify the validity of the person you are trying to chat with is by receiving email from one of my two email accounts. I also want those trying to chat with me via Instant Messenger to understand that I often just outright IGNORE messages from those whose screen names set off my radar. I have good reason to be wary...
The whole point of this page is to serve as a warning to those who choose to harass me in one form or another. I am going to make other Mistresses, as well as those viewing my site aware of you and your antics. I hope that by imparting some modicum of shame on you that you will think twice about testing my patience.
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